Which ten things make a narcissist miserable?

1. Laughing at them. Not at jokes but at their bizarre behaviour. “laugh in the face of adversity" and the Narcissist will have in internal meltdown.
2. Indifference. They want and need a reaction either good or bad. It shows them they matter to you. If your indifferent and don't care, they can't handle this lack of care. It makes them feel like they don't matter and self-hatred will ensure from within the Narcissist.
3. Challenging them or fighting back. They can't handle being challenged about their behaviour or that their reality is wrong. This is where gaslighting, word salad and their general projection mechanism kicks in.
4. Blocking. Blocking out the flying monkeys and the Narcissist in every way will make them do diabolical things. Because here they have lost control.
5. Getting rid of them. If you boot them out before they discard you. It will make the Narcissist do anything to gain any power back.. This is where projection is at its worst and they will do anything to destroy you while staying in their victim cave.
6. Calling out the abuse. When this happens, you will not hear from them, this scares them deeply. They will disappear as if they never existed.If your going through a divorce then you will only ever hear from the solicitor.
7. Holding your value. Their other ex's pined for them and wanted them back.but their ex's were crazy who didn't deserve the narcissist..sound familiar? Not pining for them and them not knowing your business will drive them nuts.
8. No information. When the Narcissist knows nothing about you anymore. They don't know who your new friends are, if your with anyone, your new number, or anything. It will drives them nuts and eventually they mag or not find out. This is to see if your a mess or not to feed their ego.
9. Living your life. This is probably the one that makes them hate themselves the most. After everything they put you through and all the tears. No matter the circumstances to just get on with your life and be the best version of yourself is like saying to the Narcissist..”I'm stronger than you and know and love who I am. I don't need you in my life to thrive" without saying a word.

So many more little things that they can't deal with. They have very fragile self esteem and cannot grasp the logical reality of other people's feelings or lives. Everything is a reflection of them